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It was just another day.  I was in between clients and decided to take myself for lunch.  I went to my favorite bagel place, grabbed my favorite lunch, grabbed my beach chair and headed to the beach.  Why is that so amazing?  It was Nov and it was 80 degrees!  I sat on the beach soaking in the sun thinking about the last long stress filled 5 years of my life.  I thought about all those nights I cried myself to sleep wondering what I was doing wrong and all those weeks I worked with no days off to the point of exhaustion. Then it hit me!  This was “that moment”!  This was why I worked my ass off, made the decisions I did and left to NY to start a new life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I did it!  I was now living my dream!

I am sometimes accused of being a little “in your face” with my advise.  It is not because I  am mean or I don’t care.  It is the exact opposite!  I am on the other side of life now!  Stress free and loving every moment!  I have no regrets but I do wish I would of snapped out of it a lot sooner! I wish I would of realized years ago that there was another way. I wish I would of been strong enough to make the changes I needed sooner.  I wish I had heard “snap out of it” or “make a different choice if you are not happy” instead of “oh I feel so bad for you” and “life just isn’t fair”. But of course life is a journey and I absolutely believe everything happened exactly as it was suppose to!  And that is why I am so in your face! I want everyone to find their happy bubble!!!!!!!!!!!  I don’t want you to wait any longer than necessary.

If you have had “that moment” then KUDOS to you!  I KNOW how hard you worked to get there!  It wasn’t luck that got you there it was YOUR hard work, determination, willingness to let go of what wasn’t working, your belief in yourself and your awareness that you ARE deserving of having everything you want!  So my hat is off to you! Well I don’t wear hats but I am giving you a big thumbs up as typing this;)

If you have not had “that moment”  ….that moment where it all makes sense…that moment when you go “this is what it was all for” then here is what I have learned. You can read all the books you want, take all the classes you want but if you are missing this one thing your life will never change.  What is that one thing?  Glad you asked;)  It is the belief that you are deserving!!!!!!!!!!!!  Sounds simple enough right?  If you do not believe you deserve it you will cannot create it!  Then you need to be willing to LET GO of what is not working.  You need to be willing to take that leap of faith without the guarantees.  You need to believe in yourself and you need to take action!

We live in a society where we are told we should be happy with what we have.  If we want more we are greedy.  We are told we need to sacrifice for others no matter what the cost to us.  We are filled with fear of “what if’s” and surrounded by nay sayer’s who talk us out of our dreams. But there is a whole other world!  A world where you can have whatever you want if you are willing to work hard enough and you believe in yourself enough.  A world where we realize the happier we are the happier the people around us are. A world where we realize we are NOT responsible for the happiness of others. A world where our dreams are supported by those who are living theirs!

As we come to the close of yet another year I hope you will take some time to think about what it is you want to create in your life this coming year.  I hope you will think about what is holding you back and make a commitment to yourself to change that!  Remember you are more powerful than you know, you are more courageous than you know and you are more deserving than you believe you are!