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“The cards are not written in stone”

Whenever I do a reading I always try to explain to my clients that the cards are not written in stone.  As a Psychic and Medium it is my job to tell you what I see, give you some insight to what is currently going on around you and tell you what is coming up in your future.  It is NOT my job to tell you what to do or make decisions for you.  You have to remember that you have “free will”.  What does that mean?  Let’s say I tell you, “I don’t see you getting that raise or promotion you want and it looks like you would have to move on from your current job to get where you want to be in your career.”  You have the choice of either staying in your miserable going no where job OR you could send out resumes and seek out a better job.  Let’s say I tell you, “I see a lot of communication problems in your relationship and I see it has been a very rocky relationship for quite some time.  I also see it is not going to change.”  You have the choice of either staying in that bad relationship or moving on to something better!  If I tell you I see you meeting the love of your life in 6 months and you never leave your house or go on a date, guess what, you most likely won’t meet them!

There are three main things that affect the accuracy of a reading.  One is the reader’s interpretation of what information they are getting.  I try very hard to relay word for word the information I am receiving during a reading.  I also try to not let my own thoughts or interpretations get in the way.  Two is what the client hears as opposed to what is being said.  It is a fact of life that many times people only hear what they want to hear instead of what is actually being said.  I think we have all been guilty of this at some point in our lives.  Three is the free will of the client to act on the information they have been given.  As we talked about earlier the reading is just the beginning of the journey.  It is what you do with the information that is the most important.

So the next time you go for a reading remember if you like what you hear then you take it as confirmation that you are on the right track.  If you don’t like what you hear it does not mean you are doomed forever.  It simply means “YOU” need to use your FREE WILL to make some changes.

Remember:  Life is what you make it!