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Question:
I recently lost a loved one and while other family members have had dreams and confirmation that they are okay I have had nothing.  Is my loved one who passed upset with me?


Answer:
My heart breaks every time I get asked this question.  Let me start by saying NO, your loved one is not mad at you.  There is actually a very simple explanation for this.

When someone passes and goes to the other side they vibrate at a very high level.  Those of us here on the earth realm vibrate at a much lower level.  In order for one to communicate with a spirit they need to lift their vibration so they can connect with that spirit.

Different things can negatively affect your vibration (lack of sleep, depression, stress, medications, etc).  I have found that when someone is in deep grief it makes it very difficult for the spirit (or deceased loved one) to connect with them.  Unfortunately, the person left behind immediately thinks their loved one is upset with them.  As a result they become more depressed and their vibration gets even lower.

I promise you that if you focus on lifting your vibration you WILL get a message from your loved one.  The easiest way to do this is through meditation.  It is also helpful to not use sleep aids.  The dream is the easiest way for the spirit to come through because you are relaxed and in your sub conscious state.